I'm sorry you're feeling so crappy Cass. Your roommate sounds like a real GUY! I'd do what my Mom used to do with us when we were kids. Let him know from now on, anything that is left laying around will be put in a box. At the end of the week, it gets tossed. Then do it. See how neat he becomes then. It worked for us. But then again, you're dealing with guy mentality.

I just checked the calendar. A full moon is coming. Maybe that's why everyone is acting weird.

Cheer up, kiddo. Things will get better. When the going gets tough, the tough go SHOPPING!!!