Congratulations! Can't provide any advice, but I will say this: there is NO way that we would ever not have our 4 kitties, even if we do decide to have a child one day. I hate to hear about families that give away their beloved kitties b/c of all those old wives' tales about cats and babies. Any time younger children have been around our cats, they've been great - they either go off and do their own thing, or they hang around in a nice way.

Congrats! Good luck - keep loving those kitties too!