Originally posted by GraciesMommy
I have been here long enough to know the "whole story" and really just can't understand why folks can't just ignore the threads if they don't agree with Tina's life style...there is not one thing you can say that will make a difference...so if you can't say something nice...what is the point of hurting her feelings?
I definitely hear where you're coming from, but some of us just can't stand by, turn our cheek, or suport a behavior which seems very wrong to us. Of course we can't judge her, but Tina herself has admitted to all of us that she couldn't handle any more pets. and I'm sorry, but it's very hard for me to believe that everything has "changed" that much in the past month that went from "I know I cannot handle another dog" to, "I can handle another dog". We can be concerned and choose to try to educate her, not doing so would mean we thought of her as a complete lost cause, and I don't think anyone here thinks that.