I just had assumed so because she was the most recent to reply disagreeing after you had already said thanks to everyone else.

I do think there are some harsh remarks in replies.. It's hard not to be sometimes, though. And harshness is what gets through to some people. I know i've bitten my tongue quite a few times recently.. maybe some should try as well?

I'm not saying they were right or wrong, you you were right or wrong, but it's all about that understanding where we're coming from.

I do know I will be VERY upset if the trend you've obtained continues on. It's not fun to watch for you or the animals.. and who knows what message is being sent to your beautiful daughters.

Again, I hope with all my heart everything will be well for you.