Reddhedd, I'm not trying to answer for Melissa, but I think that Ivy lives with Melissa's ex husband, so he is not alone. It's just that in order for him to receive proper care for his diabetes, she takes it upon herself to go over there, daily, and care for him, bless her heart. I sure hope I have all of those cats straight! Melissa has several diabetic cats in her own home, too.

Doo, Ivy and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Love,
Logan