I threw a bachelorette party once. I went to Spencer's in the mall and found a bunch of cheap fun stuff there, including:

* naughty-shaped confetti
* naughty-shaped cake pans
* fun straws and napkins
* a naughty blow-up doll we had all the guests sign with a Sharpie and then gave to the bachelorette as a souvenir

I also had what we call a "fun party" lady come to the party. It doesn't cost anything. She brings all the different toys, explains how you use them, passes them around, and then at the end, she takes orders in private. It was hilarious!!!

We also made a naughty-shaped cheese dip.