Jayna, I am not much of an "explainer," but I will try to help. I think I understand what you are asking... you want an avatar with both you and your husband, but you want it to be larger? I could do that if you gave me the original picture... I would have to seperate you faces though, so for example, it might say,

Frame 1-Jayna...Frame2-Picture of you...Frame3- John... Frame4...picture of your husband.
(Obviously I dont know either of your names. )

As for the blinking avatar... I could make that too, but using only one picture. I dont think you can use Windows MovieMaker for avartars. You can download Animation Shop for free off of www.jasc.com though. That is what I use. If you would like any furthur help as to how to make a blinkie... I could give you a liink to a tutorial. I did not really understand if you wanted me to make you one, or teach you how.

Hope this helps!

Carly