Debbie, I think you've made a good decision. Give R&L more time as your new babies. As for Lizzie, she may become more "personable" with time. You just wouldn't believe the changes in Scout. It took her almost a year to be somewhat of a lap kitty but there must be a blanket involved. Just recently she began sitting in my lap without the blanket. That took about 18 months. This from the cat that slashed the end of my nose open for bending down too close to pet her.