Johanna, I think it is so wonderful that you have this patience and dedicated love for Minnie! You will be so blessed by every milestone you cross with her, and when the day comes that she willingly accepts your love, there will be no stronger bond! My Bonnie is a good example of this ... she still moves just out of reach of my hand, but if I am seated or very still, she will make the first move and come to me. She will get in my lap, and then she is a lap kitty!!! It is so strange how some kitties have to earn your love and respect, and when they do it is simply amazing. I don't think any kitty deserves to be ignored just because they aren't the most affectionate of cats. Given the proper time and love and patience, their love can and will be earned and it will be one of the greatest bonds you can have!!!

Thanks for sharing this with us all, I think we needed to hear this encouragement!