My two cents worth are coming in a little late but I just wanted to say that in my experience (I have 11 here at my house) I think this is mostly a kittenhood thing. It would have been better if Kloe had been with her littermates a little longer as I have found that the more time they have to interact within a litter the more socialized they become. Also a semi-feral mom may have rubbed off on her a bit but with your patience can be overcome. Also in my experience with the animal shelter where I have seen tons of torties come in, as adults they are usually very, very affectionate lap cats. So hang in there girl, kittenhood doesn't last forever. I guess it's kinda like the "terrible 2's" of toddler hood !