No magic cure I'm afraid but I do think you are selling yourself short here - you have come a long way with Smokey. Few people would have the determination, the thirst for knowledge and the conviction that you have shown. Instead of feeling down about the situation you really should be giving yourself huge amounts of respect. In other hands what would Smokey's life be like? What are the chances of him still being alive? I'm so sorry to hear you were burgled - how horrible for you - and I'm sure you are right about the trauma this was for Smokey. You have done the right things and Smokey is far happier- that sounds like a result to me!