I guess, let your lawyer respond for you -- if you feel the need to respond at all. If you decide to forgive him, that doesn't mean that what he did was okay. It wasn't and he knows that.

My response would be: I received your letter. I will search my heart long and hard to find forgiveness but that may never happen. There is nothing anyone can do to bring back Amylynn. But, I hope you remember her each and every time you make the choice to drink and drive. Do not contact us again. Our laywer will handle all further communication.

Then ask your lawyer what he can do to ensure that mail from him is forwarded to the lawyer instead of you.

You don't ever have to forgive if you don't want to. But to do so -- is a gift to YOU not him. The place in your heart and soul filled with hate for him does you no good. It certainly is understandable, but that energy could be used for better purposes.

You are in our thoughts and prayers.