Oh No I am SO sorry sweetie. I did not know that that had happened My answer is Def. a no now. I dont think it would be the best situation to have ANY contact with him. He should suffer for the pain he caused you. I am also a forgiving person, but what he did, in my eyes, is unforgivable. I hope that you and your husband find the comfort and strength you need to keep moving on with you life. I do know what it feels like, but my circumstances were way different. I am here for you, as well as many, MANY other Pters, who love you dearly