First of all . . . {{{{{HUGS}}}}}

I am a very forgiving person . . . that is actually one of my faults. BUT, after a tragedy like this, I think it would take more than an AA meeting for me to give this guy the time of day.

You don't have to be so quick to forgive him . . . you're still greeving and you have a right to be upset.

I really can't believe that he expects you to respond to him. He doesn't deserve it, in my opinion.

Hang in there . . . do what your heart tells you and remember that we're all here for you!