[QUOTE]Originally posted by Soapets
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I think it is probably a lot scarier for you when no-one tells you what is going on, than when you are included and are told about things. At least if you are aware of what is going on you can understand it a little better, and/or know what to pray for, etc.
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Soapets


Yes, I think it is alot worse when she doesn't tell me things as well. Even when she did mention some details she totally down played the situation which is really frustrating.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Soapets
[B] do you still live at home with your parents? Does your mom think you're too young to be told what's going on, etc.? Maybe you can talk to her, and tell her it scares you more when you aren't included in the discussion than if you are told what is happening, so you don't have to wonder, and worry about the worst, etc. Maybe that would help her understand why it would be better to let you in on things a little more. I bet she would be proud of you for asking for prayers, too. I know I would be if you were my daughter[QUOTE]

Yes I still live at home and I guess my mom was just trying to protect me I didn't even attempt to talk to her, she was complelty drunk for the rest of the night anyhow