AWWW Debbie, don't feel sad. I'm sure little Lizzie will become a cuddle bug one day. Hopefully she will change after her spaying.
I love the way you described how she quietly sneaks up to smell you while you are sleeping. Sooooo cute.
I can't pick up my Katie girl and hold her in my arms, as she hates that. But when i'm sitting or laying on the couch, there she is laying on my chest or in my arms. Each cat has their own way and i've learned, sometimes the hard way, what each cat likes and doesn't like.