Even before I was this high-powered lawyer (LOL, honest), I never wanted to change my name. I liked my name, and really didn't like the thought of changing it "just because". I never thought down the line to what name the child would have. But, in reflection, that child doesn't know any other name but the one you bestow upon him/her at birth. That is different than someone that was brought up as Smith, and will now become Jones at marriage.

So, fast forward to Jonah...welllll...he has my last name. I wouldn't dream of having him with another name. He carries with him some of my mom, as Jonah's middle name is her maiden name. That to me, is the wonderful part of not being bound by tradition. Jonah's name is HIS name. Created by yours truly.

I never thought that a child having another name than that of his mommy was much of a deal. In 2005, it is VERY common (sadly or not) to have the child have a different name that that of his parent. Hopefully the teachers that are educating the child are quick-witted enough to overcome the hurdle of last names, and still know that Bobby Smith's mom is Jeannie Jones. Hopefully. If that is still a concern, you might want to investigate other school districts.