Wow, I certainly didn't expect to get this kind of response.

Jordan, hon, I had no idea that your homelife was so rough and really, I can't blame you for feeling the way you do. Please remember though, age changes a person. You will find that when you are in your late 20's or 30's you will be a totally different person. Your outlook on life will be different because of your experiences. You say you don't want to have children. Well, that's a personal choice. When I was your age, I made the same decision and stuck to it and have never regretted it. However, my decision was NOT based on my upbringing. It was based on the fact that I just didn't/don't like skinkids and I knew that I would not be a very good mother. Just because your homelife is not a happy one, doesn't mean that you can't provide a loving and happy home for your kids, should you choose that path.

Also Jordan, when you get older, you may decide to hook up with your Dad. I sure hope so. Right now, you are too young to make any permanent decisions. Big hugs to you and I can hardly wait to see you in July.

Kelly, Sis, that's so sweet. I, too, have received cards in the mail from my Mom, sometimes with a little contribution to the household.

Corinna, I'm saddened to hear that. I pray that someday hubby and his Dad will reunite again.
I just think as you get older and deal with the public more to, it's easier to bear.

K9, This is so true. Age has a way of mellowing you out and you just shrug off what used to bother you. Priorities change with age.

Catnapper, I'm glad you made that choice. Family is family and blood is blood. Friends come and go but family is always there. That's just something we will never change.

I really started this thread because I was deeply disturbed by some of the threads started by frustrated young people. I really admire the younger crowd and peer pressure these days is so much worse than when I grew up. I just wanted you to benefit from my experience.

Big hugs to you all.
slick xo