Well I've given up.. She is my new mascot of my business speedy paws mobile pet grooming..hehehe www.speedy-paws.com if interested and in antioch, ca area.. anyway she seems to be much happier when she comes with me. As for the times I have to leave her home alone I make sure to give her treats and I've got it up to three hours before she decides to eat something.. and then what I do is I call the house phone and talk to her useing the answering machine letting her know I love her and will be home which works half the time.. or I call my nabber and have them come over and check on her to make sure she is being good and that seems to work every time and give me another three hours. hehehe

hopefully one day I will be able to pass the three hour marker of hers that she seems to have.. its soo weird I video taped her and timed her and exactly three hours pass she gets up out of a dead sleep and goes into the really nice furniture room and starts eating everything....

but thanks for every ones advice...