Why is it we are hearing more and more stories like this? Don't the idiots who do this realize they can rebuild their Lives? that divorce is a painful but better option. I don't get it. May they rot in He!! but the lives they wreck of the innocint kids. most times their own flesh and blood. What has happened to our pride in family and family names. I would never think of disgracing my fahter (maiden name) or my husbands family.