Originally posted by Laura's Babies
[B]The way you handle this year will be the trend setter for years to come.
That's exactly what everone at work is telling me, and I know its the truth.

I want her to see Beanie on Christmas, but I'm not willing to sacrifice our family time to do it. I just don't know how to get that across to her without me being the evil one. I can hear it now---"Heather just doesn't like us, she's keeping Beanie away from us, he's ours too...." And there's the faulty thinking--he's not a community shared kid, his mine and Stephen's. How do I make her get that without being the bad guy??

Thanks for listening...: