Dear AntiPam, you have all my sympathy and prayers! Please don´t feel guilty about not having read the symptoms, I read once that cats are made to hide any sign of illness - if not, they would be seen as easy prey. It is indeed very difficult to know what´s wrong with our precious furbabies...

But, most important now, I know you´ll make the right decision whatever it will be, for you are the one that knows better, the only one.

I hope everything turns right, you have the support and understanding from all PetTalkers, I´m sure, you know we care.

Nita