thanks for the replies .... it's not looking good with my parents, I got in a fight today with my dad while he was putting in a new dog door, and I will be very unexpectedly busy tomorrow, but I will try so hard to go see her!! I'm definately calling BCRNC tomorrow. We are good friends with one of the presidents/founders of it, so I'll call her and talk to her about the baby. I love her so much, I could not just leave her to chance.