Jenni, I just now got to reading your post. I am so sorry you are having to go through this, but am confident that you will succeed. You love Duncan so much and he loves you back. He will be eager to please you and training will help you both.

I was having issues with Drake being aggressive and went to a trainer. I had to make arrangements to leave work early every Tuesday and drove for about an hour to go to the classes. Not to mention the bundle of $$$$ I had to pay.

I was in denial for the longest time and with the encouragment and comment of some Pet Talkers, I admitted we had a problem. It didn't help that Drake is almost my size and so much stronger than me. after a few months of meeting and working with a behaviorist/trainer, things were much better.

Drake is still protective of me, but is much less aggressive. I am always ready for anything he may do. When we are out in public, I am sure that he can not be hurt or hurt anyone. It has been difficult for me since Andrew had been the ALPHA and we had to reverse roles with Drake coz Andrew was leaving.

Once again, don't be sad or discouraged. You are doing what is best for Duncan. Good luck and let us know how things go!