To my beloved adopted Uncle Joe, who left us sadly after a long battle with Lung Cancer, over 13 years ago, you will always be in my heart, a simple man who never cared for material things, but had a heart of gold, I still miss you.

To my Auntie Kate, who I only ever met the one time when you visited us in NZ about 4 years ago, a very beautiful lady inside and out,with whom I felt close and a special connection, to this day none of us will know why you chose to take your own life, and we know you never wanted to leave us all, but felt you had no choice, oneday we will meet again.

To my mother n law Nancy, a dear old lady,who left us three years ago after a long battle with lymphatic cancer, someone who was very different in her approach to life, someone who I admired and respected, you did marvellous things in your life, like back-packing in Europe in your 60's, your love of music, your caring for others and even though you and I were very different, we had a good relationship, your little eccentric ways are missed by us all , especially your son Stephen.