The only people that should be blamed are the ones not sending.
It hurts me that people would sign up and not send. It just makes my stomach hurt. I was sweating bullets that I would send mine late and I think I sent over a week before it was due.
I feel so bad for the ones not getting anything, I want to send them something. It's like buying Christmas presents for someone and not getting anything back.
Teenster, I didn't think at all that you intended to hurt anyone. I know that I myself would be so hurt and upset if I would have that happen to me. I spent a lot of time and money myself finding things for both swaps. And I know both times they were greatly appreciated.
Maybe its just me being a vindicitive $itch but I myself think that making it public is a good idea. :embarrassed: