Well, I've had more experience with male cats. I found that neutered male cats were more calm and more lovey. My boyfriends female cat is very spunky and outgoing. However, my new female cat is very, very, shy, quiet and lovey. My sister's older female is very lovey, the younger is a miss priss and will let no one touch her. She'll meow for you to, but the second you extend your hand she's all up on it! lol. Their male cat is very sedate and calm.

I think it might just depend on the cat. They all have their own personalities and quirks. I still prefer male cats to females, but I love them all the same