You will be just fine, don't worry. Sounds like she has "adopted" you and especially your husband The paw motions we sometimes call "kneading bread" or "making bisquits" and shows she is comfortable with you two..don't bother with the bath thing...she knows how to do it by herself. Do consider getting her spayed. She will warm up to you shortly with the warmth you are showing in this post. And what is this dear girl's name welcome... laurie