First let me say I am so sorry about Bandit. Loosing our beloved "furkids" is difficult. I know as having been there before, that we all heal in our own ways and in our own time.

Now as for Bo....positive thoughts and prayers are being sent to you and Bo. I had a thought to make Bo feel a little better while he is at the vet's...maybe you could ask your vet if it would be OK for Bo to have a favorite blanket/kitty bed or a toy with him while he is there....or maybe a blanket with your scent on it to make him feel better. Ask your vet if they allow visiting Bo, my vet allows this if you make arrangements in advance.

Please keep us posted on Bo. I will be thinking of the both of you.