Oh, Tonya, I can SO sympathise with you.

My son left on Thursday to stay with his dad for a month, and I decided to clean his room while he is gone.

I ended up, three days later, with five huge 33 gallon garbage bags full of stuff that went to the dumpster, and five huge 33 gallon garbage bags full of stuff that went to Goodwill. So, ten giant bags of stuff removed from his room ... and he STILL has more stuff than any child needs to own.

I, too, have the grandparent problem. It's ridiculous.