Thanks! Hubby's family is always reminding him and the kids how "Wonderful" I am and how "lucky" they are to have me! LOL! I think its funny! I'm the one who's lucky since they have all made my life so much brighter (and more frustrating!!! tee hee )

To clarify, his ex-wife pays what she owes plus the $14. Sorry for being unclear. It irks the heck out of me that she does this. She has so little to pay as it is and can't seem to do so. I know people with CS payments of a $1,000 a month per child - she owes $250 a month for all three! What a joke.

As for pro-bono lawyers, I was wondering about that myself. Part of me knows that even if I find a pro-bono lawyer, that hubby will still be reticent to take her back to court. She terrifies him and he'd rather not have to face her in court. He'd rather not ever have to see her again.

Side note: This is the tye of woman she is:
Guess what this $%^& did a few years ago? When my mother-in-law was dying of cancer, she flew in (My SILs PAID for her to fly in!!!) and sat by MILs deathbed. Hubby did not see his mother the last two days of her life because ex-wife was there! He never said goodbye to his mom because of HER. Then she came to MY house (thank goodness I was out with the girls and missed her) and DEMANDED my stepson. She took him. She never asked where the girls were. She doesn't care one fig about the girls. So here we were, a dying MIL, a crazy ex-wife taking step-son and two girls that are sitting there blinking in shock that their mom was in town but didn't want to see them.

I have never met this woman face to face and hope I never do. I have never hated someone so much in my entire life. She disgusts me. It blows my mind that someone could bring 3 kids into the world and feel no love or affection for them. She's cold hearted and selfish.