Thanks to all of you, it's a good feeling not to be alone. It worked out OK after all. She stayed with us for just a few days - yes, on the couch - until my friend in Alaska's brother (young lady's uncle of course)could drive down from PA to pick her up. We will be working together to get her back on her feet. Jackie, a visit to Mission Beach sounds great but if I brought all my dogs I would be pushing him out of his home and that's just what started this thread, being edged out of one's own space. Maybe a short visit sans dogs...I'll let you know. Thanks again to each and every one of you. Good advise. Good friends
laurie