Piping in here late....

Of course you can give the girl a shower! When my sister-in-law was pregnant two years ago, she had more showers than anybody! Man, she made out! HER mom , MY mom, work, friends, and probably the neighborhood all threw her showers. Many people went to three or 4 (imagine 3 or 4 gifts? )

The days of "proper shower ettitquette" are long gone and people throw showers because they love the person who's having the baby, and not worrying over whether someone else will think it "wrong" --- Poo on them!

But, then again, I was SOOOO upset that my SIL knew about her shower (not only did she know, she planned it down to the menu and guest list, and what time and day.) Looking back now, why was I sooo upset about it not being a surprise.

A shower is basically a celebration of a new life coming into the world and preparing the mom with all the little (and big) things she might not otherwise have or be able to buy. Have fun and throw the best shower Tennesse has ever known!