I feel honored when one of the cats want to sleep with me, it doesn't happen very often when they want to cuddle in the middle of the night and it's usually just Bubby. Normally Bubby sleeps on top of the cat tree, Priss on the end of the bed or on Daddy and I don't know where Lucky usually sleeps, he ends up on the end of the bed a lot, but not usually at the same time as Priss. I would suggest putting a big cat tree in your bedroom to lure some of the playing to it. We have a 5 footer in there and they love to sleep on that and watch over us.

When Bubby does cuddle me, it is so great, he hugs my head and I put my face in his chest, it's like he's human, it's SO sweet. He's the only one that cuddles like that with me and Lucky comes by several times a week purring like a motorboat and wanting to suck on our ears or hands, LOL. I hide under the covers sometimes, LOL. And Priss directs all her attention to her Daddy, so she doesn't bother me. She kneads his belly at all hours of the night and meows at him to let her under the covers and sleeps on his belly, but he doesn't seem to mind. The only time it's bad is when they bring their toy mice on the bed and start batting them around, now THAT is annoying. I also suggest keeping a spraybottle on the bedside table and spray at them when they start getting wild. Good luck!