1. 45-minute showers - We take showers together. No need to say we don't keep it short. But as soon as the hot water is gone (I have a boiler), we're out. I am adorable in the shower.

2. Spoiled pets - He spoils them as much as I do. Juni eats what she wants from the corner of the table. I am adorable when I kiss and pet my cats.

3. "Casual Sunday" - hmm, I am adorable in a bathrobe or other summary clothing.

4. All TV, all the time - well, I have to admit, sometimes if it's too much tv, you forget about the person next to you. I am adorable when I watch tv, though.

5. Pretzels in bed - Juni takes care of the crums. As for the clean sheets, I love the smell of freshness, so I do change them. I am adorable when I eat in bed.

6. Aimless whistling - I sing, and again, I am adorable.

7. Lack of silverware - I have silverware, and I have plates and I am adorable again.

There's too much emphasis on what you should do, how you should act, you know, the whole Holliwoodian concept of a perfect woman, or a perfect man, or a perfect relationship. Just be yourself, you won't be able to pretend you are who you are not for a long time anyway.