I think guster girl is right about that. You might have control issues later if he is the one telling you when to pick him up. Layla loved to be held as a puppy, but she grew out of it. I don't know if its because she feels secure now but she doesn't like to be held or lay on my lap, though she cuddles next to me and I hold her that way. I don't see any problem with holding a dog too much, and he may be like Layla and grow out of it. It may be a security thing like Pam said.