UMMMM, I decided quickly that last night was not the night to approach such things. He had a horrible day at work and I decided not to be mean and make him argue with me for the rest of the night! j/k
I did think some more on the matter and decided that I will discuss it with him but my mind is pretty much set unless he can come up with some very persuasive arguments against it. I do need him to occasionally grab me and pull me out by my toes because I'm going in head first! I will listen to him and go from there.
I will be at the shelter tomorrow night so hopefully I will be able to talk to Barb about Ocky.
I forgot about this wonderful animal group in our area called Woodstock. They are a major rescue group and there was an article in the paper about them not to long ago. The article was about this wonderful woman who runs the program and about her cat that was born with no eyes. This ladies name was Denise and she came into the shelter last week. I do know that Barb and Denise had a discussion about her taking Ocky and letting him live with the other blind cat. I don't know where that conversation went or if anything was ever planned. I think that might be good for Ocky too. I will check and see if they are planning to do this or not. I think that whole conversation slipped my mind because they discussed it, dropped it, and never mentioned it again. They are all so overwhelmed that I think Ocky got put on the back burner.
I have not given up yet and I will keep you all posted!