Cougie, I too can totally understand the and feelings! I also am praying that this was a real wake-up call for Tascha's owners. But, I'm glad that you were open and honest with her about the precious kitty's welfare Sometimes it's hard to see what's really happening unless you talk with someone face to face. That's great news about your friend's new 'spark' for a cat in her life!! Be sure to tell us all about it, and by all means...invite her to join in here at COTD!!!!