UMMMM Cancel the Love fest.....

Shadow hides behind my husband's desk all day. She follows him around. He said that she thinks he is her protector.

Meanwhile Clayton stays in the basement all day, eithe rin the window or in his "fort". When he does come upstairs he sits right outside JIm's study door and JIm says he is waiting to ambush Shadow. I say he wants to play but she won't have anything to do with him. THey were hissing at each other again last night.

I am still using the Rescue Remedy and the Feliway... nothing seems to be working. Can I start drinking these myself?

My heart is breaking for Shadow. I love them both so very much and feel it is all my fault. If I hadn't fallen head over heels for CLayton non of this would have happened. Clayton is so happy tho. His coat is now so shiny and soft it almost looks like it is wet. He is laid back and happy. I think he is lonely tho. Jim and I are his only playmates.

Shadow hides behind things... where as before she was happy (for her that is). She still doesn't come into my study any more, and when I am allowed to pet her she is twitching that tail like a fly swatter... a sure sign that I am still not in good standing.

I love her .. tell her.. spend time with her.. and yet I am not forgiven.... BAD MOMMA!!!!

Blessings,
Mommacat.. Deb