These are the kind of people that LOVE pulling your strings......and apparently they do it very well

You need to prepare yourself for the next time they visit (if you ever choose to do that). Do NOT let them get to you, no matter what. Pretty soon there will be no more "fun" in it and (hopefully) it will stop.

If you do invite them back, place the kitties in another room so they won't even see them. I know that's hard to do because it is the kitties house too, but if they have nothing to pick on, then they won't pick at all!

Better yet, don't invite them over for a very long time........hopefully that will get the message to them


Gosh, I sure hope your back gets to feeling better. I have a bad back too, so I kind of know what you are going through.