Originally posted by Lissa
I think a young adult dog would also be best, at least a year old but I think 2 years would be ideal. I'm not ready to do the puppy thing again. I understand there will be work with an adult too, but I can see it being easier. Am I misguided in this idea? I would like some advise on this too. Thanks again. It feels good to talk about my concerns and ideas.
Of our three dogs, both girls we got as puppy's, and Spot we got at 2 1/2 years. He was definatly the easiest. He was already trained, just needed a little brushing up. It was also easier to introduce him to our other dogs. When we first got Cincy, Sadie, although only ayear old, wasn't quite sure how to handle a puppy. With Spot, who is the same age as her, she knew right away how to play, and they were getting along wonderfully within hours of meeting.

Of course that doesn't mean every older dog will be easy. Becuase you are concerned about your bf's patience levels, I think I may first try a rescue group that has their pets in foster homes. That way you can talk to someone who has be living with the dog, and get a better idea of their temprement. If you do find one in a shleter (and that is where we got Spot), try to get as much info as you can as to the dog's former living situation. I would probablly shy away from a dog that was taken away or surrendered because it was abused. Even though your bf wouldn't hurt the dog, if it previously has been asbused, astrong willed male could be very intimidating.