Anna, yes it was a long post but it was extremely accurate. Once the fight adrenaline kicks in, it take a great deal to stop it. You are absolutely right that it takes a good portion of time before the fight reflex stops. Think about how long it takes us as people to stop feeling angry and start seeing reason.

The best defense is a good offense. Reading the dogs moods is imperative. I also had a behaviorist come to my house and help me read the body language of my two. Most times they get along great - but I have learned to read their "body language" and prevent fights before they ever got to the stage where they get heavy. I think that the water trick works well if it is a slight "squabble" - but if it gets to the point where it is serious, throwing water doesn't distract them at all. Only seperation for a good period of time (sometimes even a day) brings it back into focus.

Great points - thanks for posting. I hope you stick around and continue to post your experiences.