I am so glad to hear from you! I love that pic! Do you know how lucky you are? That's the way I wanted to grow up but it wasn't to be. I think you should do what you've been doing to a certain extent but you should also be willing to try the things the trainer is telling you because they know what they're talking about. But, don't let her rush you, either. Maybe you could talk to her a little and tell her how you feel? So, good luck and I look forward to seeing more pics.