Hello Oliver! I'm another lover of orange kitties and you are one gorgeous boy. I keep looking at your eyes and still cannot decide what color they are - blue, green, turquoise? One of my cats is an "old mean gray" girl like your sibling. She doesn't like to play with anyone either, so it's best to just love her from afar. You are a wonderful COTD, Oliver, and I hope you have many years with your family who loves you so much.