you're being a wonderful parent- joey will get the best care from you! Use those websites when you can- they often will trigger questions to pose the vet and then trigger the vet to change their line of thinking (they're human and get stuck too but can be helpful if we jog them in various directions). God knows I wouldn't have known about the lung worm in my feral kittens if not for an intern vet who had just read up on worms- she said it never would have been a possible test with another vet...too uncommon...