Do you have separate feeding bowls/places for them? I still have to keep my two's food separated as they are on different diets. However they do sometimes eat out of each other's bowls - Mitzi is the bully when it comes to food. Sometimes she bites at Mishi's head while eating out of HIS bowl - she's never actually bit him, but she does make the move. That's when I separate them (gentlY0 and they get over it. He's such a gentleman - when he catches her eating at his bowl, he stands patiently by, waiting for her to finish eating HIS food. It's taken my two many MONTHS to get along together in a friendly manner - initially they just tolerated each other. Thankfully, I never went through a period of really bad hissing and swatting with them.

Yup - sometimes Mishi "stalks" Mitzi - he LOVES her. He has now earned her good graces and she will let him lick her. I even caught her giving him a head-bump the other day -- a first after 7 months! Yes, Mitzi sometimes hides from him - she jumps up to higher places to get away from his attention (he doesn't jump at all). Give them time - they will figure it out. As long as no blood is being shed, they are making progress.