i dont want to date this guy right now. i know i never will get the chance. but i have read some of the posts that say stuff like someone was 9 years older than u, parents were 40 years apart. i mean, come on. i would never date someone who was over 5 years older than me. no offense to the peeps who date OLDER men or women. its their decision. i just wanted to know what u peeps thought. u know? i know that i would never have a chance with the guy that i like. other guys in his grade say that hes trouble. but he is so nice to me. he sticks up for me when his friends talk bad about me. maybe its just an act, maybe its not. how am i suppost to know? he told me that im not ugly. i just dont know anymore. when someone is nice to u dont u think that its not an act? i mean, unless you personally know that person.