I agree Micki. This sounds more like psychological abuse towards his children. Although it is animal abuse, he isn't using it in the way a normal abuser might. I think he wanted to inimidate you by showing that he is "God" of the family and is strong so you should listen and do as your told.

Thanks for beining it up Micki, I never even thought of it until I read your post.

Do you think that might be how it is stacwase?