I can see why you are in such a funk. Maybe you could try to visit your daughter the weekend of the 20-21st or even the 13th-14th? Airfares might not be so expensive then and you could still exchange presents and have a holiday meal together.

That was pretty unfair of your daughter however. Why can't she fly out to visit you? Airplanes fly both ways.

Either way, I hope you can start feeling better soon and find a way to enjoy the holidays again.