Sudilar....It sounds as if you weaken further (and you're pretty much there!) and bring Willie home, that the dogs themselves may provide you with your answer. Shiloh may hold the key. It may very well be that if she accepts Willie it may be a "go." As others have said, it is your decision and we certainly don't want you to feel pressured into doing something you don't feel comfortable doing. Anyway, we'll be waiting to hear what happens.